The People Who Speak Your Language 🌹

Come, come sit with me, grab your drink and pull up a chair. Okay, I know I hit you with a good blog on Monday, but you know me — my head just keeps moving from one thought to another. And hun, the thought that popped out this time was this: When was the last time you had a conversation with someone you truly trusted? I mean really trusted. The kind of person who would listen. Wouldn't mock you. Wouldn't weaponize what you tell them later. Would genuinely care about what you're saying. The kind of person who lets you be completely yourself. No filters. No pretending. No editing. Because that's what trust does. It gives us a place where we can stop editing ourselves. And the more I thought about that, the more I wondered... How many people are walking around every day editing who they truly are because they don't trust that people will like the real version of them? Take me for example. Lord knows I don't always say the right t...
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🌿 Being Present… But From a Distance

Come, come sit with me…
Grab yourself a drink and pull up a chair.

Okay… let’s talk for a moment.

Over the last couple of weeks, I’ve had a few conversations where people said something to me…

that I don’t really message unless I’m messaged first.

And to be quite honest…
they’re not wrong.

But here’s the thing…

If those people ever needed me, I would be there in a minute.
I would be present in that moment.

But I’ve started to realize something…

People today need more than just moments.

They need connection more often…
even if it’s just a quick text.

And it made me stop and think for a moment…

And here’s the other thing about me…

I hate texting 😄

I’m that old-fashioned phone call kind of girl.

But here’s the beauty of it…

Being present looks very different to different people.

Here I was, thinking I was being present…
and in my own way, I was — just from a distance.

But that distance?

It was felt.

And what’s also beautiful…

is that my friends felt comfortable enough to tell me.

They’re not asking me to change who I am…

they’re just asking for a little more of me.

Being present… maybe it needs to be more than just people knowing you’re there.

Maybe they need to feel that you’re there.

I have a cousin who messages every night…
just to say he loves all of his cousins.

He’s been doing it for about four months now.

And then one night… about a week ago…
he missed it.

And you know what?

I felt it.

That one small message…
had become something I didn’t even realize I was counting on.

And in that moment…
I understood what my friends were trying to tell me.

So maybe the question isn’t just…
are you present?

Maybe it’s…

are you present in a way that people can feel?

Or are you, like me…

present from a distance…
and maybe needing to step a little closer?

Whisper: “Being present is more than being there… it’s letting someone feel you beside them.”

If this spoke to you, I’d love to hear from you.
You can always reach me at loveandlifewithlisa@gmail.com.

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