The Ones Who Break Us… and the Ones Who Rebuild Us

Come, come sit with me. Grab a drink and pull up a chair. Okay… I heard a comment today that made me sit back and think — like really think about the words. Because child… they ran around in my head all day. The comment was this: Some people come into our lives to break us… and some come into our lives to rebuild us. Sit with that for a moment. I know what you’re thinking… Who is breaking me? And who is rebuilding me? Mmm… yeah. I felt that one down in my bones. It hits hard. The reason it hits hard… is because you never want to think that people are breaking you. But they do. And sometimes it’s not loud or obvious. The breaking can happen in the way someone talks to you… or the way you feel when you’re around them. And deep down, in your heart of hearts… you know it’s not right. You feel it. And in that breaking… you start to withdraw a little. You get quieter. You question things more. And you find yourself asking: Why? Why does this feel ...
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Spring, Weddings… and the Truth About Love 🌹

Come, come sit with me. Grab yourself a drink and pull up a chair.

Spring is in the air…
which means things are budding and getting ready to be brought to life.

Just like wedding season…

WOO HOO 😄

And you know I love me some wedding vibes…

New love,
old love,
and that quick love that somehow turns into forever… 😄

There’s just something about this time of year.

You can feel it.

That excitement…

The kind that comes when you’re just starting to plan…
or when everything is finally coming together and you’re thinking,
“thank God it’s almost here.” 😄

But even with all that excitement…

there’s something deeper.

There’s love.

And for me…

love is everything.

Love shows up in different ways…

And when it’s real,
it’s always there.

I heard a story once about a couple who dated as teenagers…

but life happened,
and they went their separate ways.

They lost contact…

and that was it.

Until… 45 years later 😄

They found each other again…

and ended up getting married.

Now tell me that’s not something.

So here’s the thing…

As much as I love weddings…

it’s the love that draws me in.

It’s the reason I read romance books.

Because I know there will always be a HEA—a happily ever after.

But real life?

Real love can be messy.

It doesn’t always follow a perfect path.
It doesn’t always look the way we imagined.

And still…

as long as we get to the finish line…

it’s worth it.

So really, at the end of it all…

we all have our own version of love.

And let me tell you…

no two love stories are ever the same.

And that, my friend…

is the beauty of a love story.

Because even though they’re different…

they all matter.

✨ Whisper:
Love doesn’t have to look perfect to be real… it just has to be true.

Thank you for sitting with me here at Love and Life with Lisa 🌹

If this post spoke to you, or reminded you of your own version of love, I’m so glad you stopped by and I would love to hear about your love story.

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