Not Every Ending Comes with Closure

Come, come sit with me… grab your drink and pull up a chair. Listen… I’m one of those people who likes to have everything all wrapped up neatly. But uummm… we all know in life… that doesn’t always happen. And sometimes… we don’t get the closure we crave. I had a friend. I truly thought we were good friends. We hung out, did things together, and had been friends for years. We met at work… and even after I left that job, we still kept our friendship going. Until… we didn’t. Honestly? I don’t even know why they stopped talking to me. I called. I left messages. I texted. And nothing. My goodness… it was hard to let it go. Because I like closing the circle. I like understanding. I like knowing why something ended. But this circle… It never closed. And that was the hardest part. And honestly… it still bugs me. And maybe that’s the part we don’t talk about enough. Not every relationship ends with a conversation. Not every ending comes with an ex...
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That Wasn’t My Type… Until It Was

Come, come sit with me.
I’ve got my tea, and I’m going to walk down memory lane for a second… lol.

Have you ever met someone and at first there’s no attraction? You think, they’re nice… could be a really good friend. You know the feeling.

😉 Yeah… you know where I’m going with this.

I remember meeting this guy, and just like I said — he was nice. Nothing more, nothing less. We started talking, having really good conversations. Easy ones. The kind where time slips by without you noticing.

I can remember sitting there thinking, well damn… are you just fine-looking. And the intelligence? Out of this world.

You know how we all say we have a type — and we get tunnel vision on that type. Any other guy doesn’t even register. We’re convinced we know exactly what we want.

And then… the one you least expect sneaks up on you.

BOOM.
You’re in love. 😂

But let me say this — it wasn’t the looks that did it. It was truly the connection. And the fact that he could make me laugh.

The more I laughed, the more my walls fell — until one day, he was just there… in my heart. And we had such a strong connection because, honestly, it started as friends first.

Listen — really hear what I’m saying.

Getting to know someone first, just spending time together, talking, laughing… that right there is magic. Intimacy is so much better when there’s a real connection behind it.

So what I’m really saying is this: take the blinders off and look around. Don’t wait so hard for “your type” to come along. Look around — because he might already be standing right in front of you.

And just a little footnote…
Me and my guy didn’t last as a romantic couple — but he’s still my friend. 💛

✨ Whisper:
Sometimes love doesn’t arrive as fireworks. Sometimes it shows up as laughter, friendship, and a connection that quietly finds its way into your heart.

Want to share your story with me?

If this blog stirred a memory in you, I’d love to hear it.
Email me at loveandlifewithlisa@gmail.com


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