Holding Space

Love and Life with Lisa 🌹 Holding Space A conversation about depression, love, boundaries, and the people who stay 🌿 Gentle Note Before We Begin This post contains a personal reflection on depression, grief, and emotional healing. There are no graphic details, but I speak honestly about pain, loss, and the journey back to myself. If today feels tender, please read gently, pause when needed, or come back when it feels right. You are always allowed to take care of your heart. Come, come — sit with me. Grab yourself a drink, and let’s talk about holding space . This is a conversation about depression, love, boundaries, and the people who stay. I’m going to tell you a story, and I want to be honest with you — it’s an emotional one for me. If my words feel heavy at times, or if you sense tears behind them, it’s because I got to t...
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Being Seen Is Worth the Risk

Spoiler Alert: This post contains spoilers for Heated Rivalry . If you haven’t read the book or watched the series yet and want to experience it fresh, you may want to come back after.

Come, come sit with me…

Oh child, I have to tell you about this series that’s been living rent-free in my head for three days.

And let me be honest right from the start — I’m not even a TV person. I usually don’t get into the hype of shows everyone is raving about. I’ll watch here and there, but binge-watching? That’s not really my thing.

But this one?

This one pulled me in.

I binged it. All of it. And it hit me hard — really hard.

My bad… the series was Heated Rivalry.

What surprised me wasn’t just the story, but how deeply it stayed with me. It wasn’t background noise. It wasn’t entertainment I forgot once the screen went dark. It lingered — in the quiet moments, in my thoughts, in my heart.

While the series powerfully explores coming out as gay, what stayed with me was the universal fear we all carry about being seen.

I realized it was because this series carried two powerful truths at the same time.

One part of the story is about being gay — about coming out, about courage, about loving openly in a world that doesn’t always make space for that. That matters. That deserves to be named and honored.

But the other part — the part that wrapped itself around me — was about something broader and deeply human.

It was about the fear of being seen.

Scott had the fear of being gay. Another person had the fear of being fluffy(over-weight) and people making fun. Or the fear of simply being different in a world where everyone tries to be perfect.

Different fears. Same question underneath it all.

What happens if people really see me?

What stayed with me most was how fear didn’t disappear — it was still there. But it no longer got the final say. Love did.

One moment in particular hit me straight in the chest when Scott said:

“Love is stronger than fear.”

Not because fear was gone… but because love was chosen anyway.

That’s when it clicked for me. This story wasn’t only about identity. It was about truth. About the courage it takes to stop hiding, to step forward, and to allow yourself to be seen — fully and honestly.

Truth:
Fear changes its costume,
but it always asks the same thing:
will you hide, or will you live?

And the truth is this:
Love is stronger than fear.
Truth is stronger than perfection.
Being seen is worth the risk.

My truth:
I chose to be seen when I started this blog.

So now I ask you — which will you choose?

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