Not Every Ending Comes with Closure

Come, come sit with me… grab your drink and pull up a chair. Listen… I’m one of those people who likes to have everything all wrapped up neatly. But uummm… we all know in life… that doesn’t always happen. And sometimes… we don’t get the closure we crave. I had a friend. I truly thought we were good friends. We hung out, did things together, and had been friends for years. We met at work… and even after I left that job, we still kept our friendship going. Until… we didn’t. Honestly? I don’t even know why they stopped talking to me. I called. I left messages. I texted. And nothing. My goodness… it was hard to let it go. Because I like closing the circle. I like understanding. I like knowing why something ended. But this circle… It never closed. And that was the hardest part. And honestly… it still bugs me. And maybe that’s the part we don’t talk about enough. Not every relationship ends with a conversation. Not every ending comes with an ex...
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From the Background to the Front: A New Season Begins

Come, come sit with me.

Oh my goodness… it has been an interesting start to January. LOL — it really has.

The month began with me telling you I was ready to start a new journey, a new season. And honestly? That part felt good. Exciting, even. But then life stepped in and said, “Hold on.”

I caught the flu — and child, it was bad. It took me completely out of commission for five full days. No energy. No words. Just rest.

I’m only now starting to feel like myself again, which is also why I missed my Monday blog — the first time since I started writing consistently. That wasn’t easy for me to admit… but it’s part of the truth.

So here I am again, stepping back into this journey… and well… uumm… LOL — I’m nervous. Not in a dramatic way. Not in a “run away” kind of way. Just that quiet, honest nervousness that shows up when you know you’re standing at the edge of something new.

When I first started this blog, I had absolutely no idea what I was doing. None. But it felt right.

I just knew I wanted to talk to you — to tell you about books I loved, the ones that made me feel something. And then, somewhere along the way, it turned into stories about my life… my feelings… my heart.

And then — BOOM — it just happened. Naturally. Organically. In a very good way.

Now here I am, getting ready to start the podcast… and child, I am all up in my feelings.

I find myself second-guessing. Wondering if I’ll say the right things. If it will sound right. If I will sound right. Grrr… LOL.

Because I’ve already done this once — quietly, with words on a page. Now I’m being asked to use my voice… and that feels like a whole new level of vulnerable.

What’s interesting is that I am confident. Deep down, I know I’m on the right road. There’s a steadiness there that I trust.

And yet… I’m also very shy. Which made me stop and wonder — can you be both at the same time? Confident in where you’re going, but still shy about being seen. Certain about the path, but nervous about the spotlight.

I think the answer is yes. Because confidence doesn’t always arrive loudly. Sometimes it shows up quietly, with a steady heartbeat and a soft voice saying, “I’m ready… just go slow with me.”

And here’s the other piece I can’t ignore — I’m being asked to step forward at work too. So this isn’t just happening in one area of my life… it’s happening everywhere.

Which tells me something. This isn’t random. This isn’t coincidence. This is a season.

I have a feeling that right now, there are a lot of us who’ve spent years in the background — supporting, holding space, doing the quiet work — who are suddenly being asked to come forward.

Not because we changed overnight, but because we’re ready now. Ready to be seen. Ready to use our voice. Ready to trust what we already know.

So yes, I may be nervous. Yes, I may still be a little shy. But this is our season.

And honestly? I say… let’s GO.

Whisper:

If you’re being called forward and your heart is racing, don’t pull back. That’s not fear — that’s your season arriving.

Want to share your thoughts or tell me what season you’re stepping into? Email me anytime:
loveandlifewithlisa@gmail.com

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